On being (almost) mugged
My mental image of New York is not exactly a sex-and-the-city consumer utopia, but for some reason random street crime has never entered the picture. Never again. For better or worse, my attitude towards Gotham has changed as the result of an incident last night.
The time: 1:35 am. The place: Myrtle ave, 65th st. After a wonderful day of grooving to Yo La Tengo and dancing on stage with the cast of HAIR, I was tired and looking forward to sleep.
I was only one block from home.
Footsteps behind me. A young black man, maybe about 20 with a big afro and a lanky frame, steps alongside me and asks if I had a dollar. I said I didn't have any, which was true (I spent my last single on a Mcdonalds cheeseburger). He asked me again "You sure you don't even have a dollar?" Again, I said "no", maybe a bit too brusquely. He was being a bit persistent, but other then that I assumed he was just another homeless guy asking for some change.
"OK, then I'm going to make this quick. Give me everything you have in your pockets NOW". Literally as I was turning the corner on my block, I turned around and saw him with his shirt pulled up over his nose and reaching for something in his pocket.
Think: what did I have in my pockets? My cellphone, my wallet, my keys. I wasn't going to give him this stuff. The mind operates pretty quickly under pressure, and I recalled someone saying in a safety class in middle-school, of all places, that if you are ever approached by a threatening person you should yell "HELP!" as loudly as possible. That's the only tool I had for getting this guy off me safely.
I told the guy "I am on my block now man. You don't wanna do this. I'm gonna scream for help". "You really think people are gonna come down to hel-" "HEEEELLLPP SOME GUY IS TRYING TO MUG ME! HEEEELLLP" "You are alone mother-fuc- "HEEEEELLLLP!" As I turn around again I hear the guy slinking away back to Myrtle Avenue.
At this point bravado overtakes me a little bit "You run motherfucker! That guy in the afro tried to Mug me!" as if my block was going to collectively run out and capture him. I heard him say "Suck my dick!" and then disappear behind a corner.
This had all taken place over about 2 minutes. My body hadn't caught up with events - my heart was beating normally, my muscles were loose. It was only after I got back in my apartment that I started to shake somewhat uncontrollably.
This was my first encounter with honest-to-god street crime, and it easily could have ended badly. Nobody actually came out of the apartments to help me - what if the mugger had continued pressing me? I suppose I would have given him my wallet, and maybe bargained to keep some of the useless identity cards (fat chance).
This event needs more digesting. Have any of you had experiences with street crime? If so, what happened, and how did it change your outlook?
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Wow danny. That sucks. Your completely all right though, right?
My experience with muggers is not as scary as yours, it's just embarrassing. On my senior class trip to Washington D.C. we stopped in Baltimore. I went to some kind of shopping mall with my friends for food. It was really late and the Mall was almost deserted. A black man in his early 30's saw me take money from my wallet, and I still had quite a bit left. He asked me for change of a 50, and I saw that he had some money in his hand, so I just gave him the change. He gave me a ten dollar bill back. He said "I have the rest of the money, just follow me," and he walked away. Then I did the stupidest thing I have ever done: I actually started following him. Then I realized what had happened and I stopped. The guy probably would have pulled a knife on me. I felt so stupid I couldn't even look at my friends.
I'm sorry, I got so caught up in memory lane I forgot to ask if you were ok.
To answer the second part of your question, for the rest of the day I was a little uncomfortable around black people. The next day I was ashamed of myself for judging people on their skin color. That is exactly what I had been taught not to do. I thought about what part of the system had failed that man. Was it a bad education, a bad economy, racism, or all of the above? I am thankful that I have had a good education and good parents, or else stupidity might have triumphed over common sense.
never would've expected that to happen to you, danny. especially since you practically grew up in the city and thus likely don't look like an easy target.
you handled it well, although you always could have tried reasoning with the guy. you know: "dude, i'm just on my way home after a long day -- i'm broke, please leave me alone." it was also a bad idea to tell the guy that you live nearby, in case he decides to come back for revenge.
hey danny its ohkay about feeling weird around black people after that. some black dude stole my metrocard the other day and for the rest of the day i was just really weary of anybody in the subway, especially if they were black. i think its just normal, not discriminatory. its people like that who take progress back a few steps by acting selfish and dumb
what a fuckin idiot
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